Seeds of destiny devotional why marriages fail

Here is a devotional based on the book "Seeds of Destiny" by Pastor Paul Enenche, focusing on why marriages fail:

Title: Why Marriages Fail

Scripture: "And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." - Genesis 2:18

Reflection: Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it is meant to be a beautiful and fulfilling experience for both partners. However, many marriages fail, and this failure can be attributed to various reasons. In this devotional, we will explore some of the reasons why marriages fail.

Reason 1: Lack of Communication

Communication is the foundation of any successful marriage. When couples fail to communicate effectively, misunderstandings and conflicts arise, leading to a breakdown in the relationship. Effective communication involves active listening, expressing oneself clearly, and being willing to compromise.

Reason 2: Unrealistic Expectations

Many couples enter marriage with unrealistic expectations about what their partner can and cannot do. When these expectations are not met, frustration and disappointment set in, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Reason 3: Lack of Trust

Trust is a vital component of any successful marriage. When couples lack trust, they become suspicious and paranoid, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Reason 4: Financial Stress

Financial stress can be a major contributor to the breakdown of a marriage. When couples are struggling financially, they may become irritable and argumentative, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Reason 5: Lack of Intimacy

Intimacy is a vital component of any successful marriage. When couples lack intimacy, they may become disconnected and distant, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Reason 6: Lack of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a vital component of any successful marriage. When couples fail to forgive each other, they may become bitter and resentful, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Reason 7: Lack of Prayer

Prayer is a vital component of any successful marriage. When couples fail to pray together, they may become disconnected and distant, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.

Prayer: Dear Lord, I pray that You will help me to communicate effectively with my partner, and that we will be able to work through our differences in a loving and respectful manner. I pray that we will not have unrealistic expectations about each other, and that we will be able to trust each other completely. I pray that we will be able to manage our finances wisely, and that we will be able to find intimacy and connection in our relationship. I pray that we will be able to forgive each other quickly and easily, and that we will be able to pray together regularly. Help us to build a strong and healthy marriage, and to be a blessing to each other and to our families. Amen.

Conclusion: Marriage is a beautiful and sacred institution, and it is meant to be a source of joy and fulfillment for both partners. However, many marriages fail due to various reasons, including lack of communication, unrealistic expectations, lack of trust, financial stress, lack of intimacy, lack of forgiveness, and lack of prayer. By recognizing these reasons and working to overcome them, couples can build a strong and healthy marriage that will last a lifetime.

Action Point: Take some time to reflect on your marriage and identify any areas where you may need to improve. Make a commitment to work on these areas and to prioritize your marriage.