Questions to ask a new lover

The excitement of a new romance! Asking the right questions can help you get to know your new lover better, build intimacy, and even strengthen your connection. Here are some questions to ask a new lover:

Getting to know each other

  1. What do you like to do in your free time?
  2. What are your hobbies or passions?
  3. What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
  4. What's your favorite travel destination and why?
  5. What's your favorite type of music/movie/book and why?

Relationship goals and expectations

  1. What are your expectations for our relationship?
  2. What are your deal-breakers in a relationship?
  3. How do you handle conflicts or disagreements?
  4. What's your idea of a perfect date?
  5. How do you like to show affection and intimacy?

Personal growth and values

  1. What are your goals and aspirations?
  2. What's most important to you in life?
  3. How do you prioritize your well-being and self-care?
  4. What's your favorite way to relax and unwind?
  5. What's something you're proud of accomplishing?

Communication and trust

  1. How do you like to communicate with your partner?
  2. What's your favorite way to show appreciation and gratitude?
  3. How do you handle jealousy or insecurity?
  4. What's your trust threshold, and how do you build trust with someone?
  5. How do you like to resolve conflicts or disagreements?

Fun and playful

  1. What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
  2. What's your favorite way to have fun and let loose?
  3. What's your go-to karaoke song?
  4. What's your favorite type of cuisine or restaurant?
  5. What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't had the chance?

Intimacy and connection

  1. What's your favorite way to connect with someone on a deeper level?
  2. How do you like to show physical affection?
  3. What's your favorite way to spend quality time together?
  4. How do you handle intimacy and vulnerability?
  5. What's something that makes you feel loved and appreciated?

Remember, the key is to be genuine, curious, and respectful in your questions. Listen actively and respond thoughtfully to show your interest and care.