I suffered without manqoba mngqithi asavela on sundowns father

I think there may be a bit of confusion here!

Manqoba Mngqithi is a South African football coach who is currently the head coach of Mamelodi Sundowns, a professional soccer team in the South African Premier Division. He is not a father, nor is he a person who can be referred to as "Asavela" (which is a name, not a title or a relationship).

It's possible that you may be thinking of a different person or context. Could you please clarify what you mean by "suffered without Manqoba Mngqithi asavela on Sundowns father"? I'm here to help and provide assistance if I can!