I have been with him for 5 years no sign of marriage

I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling concerned about the lack of progress towards marriage in your relationship. It's completely normal to have expectations and hopes for your future together, and it can be frustrating when they're not being met.

Before we dive into potential solutions, can you tell me a bit more about your situation? For example:

• How often do you talk about marriage with your partner? Is it a topic that comes up regularly or is it something you've brought up recently?
• Has your partner given you any indication that they're not interested in getting married, or is it more of a lack of discussion or planning?
• Are there any other issues or concerns you have in your relationship that might be contributing to the lack of progress towards marriage?
• What are your personal feelings about marriage? Is it something that's very important to you, or are you more flexible about it?

Understanding your situation and feelings can help me provide more tailored advice and support.