Drum dancing korean girl with the white new orleans guy

I think I can help you identify the music video you're thinking of!

The music video that comes to mind based on your description is "Gangnam Style" by PSY, a South Korean singer-songwriter. The video features PSY, a Korean man, dancing with a Korean woman, HyunA, a member of the K-pop group 4Minute, in a traditional Korean hanbok outfit. The video also features a cameo appearance by a white man, a New Orleans jazz musician named Snoop Dogg, who raps in the song.

The music video was released in 2012 and became a viral sensation, breaking numerous records on YouTube and becoming the first YouTube video to reach 1 billion views. The song's catchy beat and signature "horse riding" dance move made it a global phenomenon.

Is this the music video you were thinking of?