Deal breakers

The age-old concept of "deal breakers"! A deal breaker is a characteristic, habit, or behavior that is so significant that it would cause you to reevaluate or end a relationship, whether romantic, platonic, or professional. Here are some common deal breakers across various relationships:

Romantic Relationships:

  1. Infidelity or dishonesty
  2. Abuse (physical, emotional, or verbal)
  3. Lack of respect or disrespect for boundaries
  4. Unwillingness to compromise or communicate effectively
  5. Different values or beliefs that cannot be reconciled
  6. Unhealthy or addictive behaviors (e.g., substance abuse)
  7. Unwillingness to work on relationship issues
  8. Disregard for personal space or boundaries
  9. Unacceptable financial habits (e.g., overspending, debt)
  10. Unwillingness to plan for a future together

Friendships:

  1. Betrayal of trust or confidentiality
  2. Constant criticism or negativity
  3. Unwillingness to listen or empathize
  4. Disrespect for personal boundaries or space
  5. Unhealthy competition or jealousy
  6. Unreliability or flakiness
  7. Unwillingness to compromise or find common ground
  8. Constant drama or negativity
  9. Unwillingness to support or encourage
  10. Unacceptable behavior (e.g., gossiping, spreading rumors)

Professional Relationships:

  1. Lack of professionalism or accountability
  2. Unwillingness to communicate effectively
  3. Unreliability or tardiness
  4. Unacceptable work habits (e.g., procrastination, lack of effort)
  5. Unwillingness to take feedback or constructive criticism
  6. Unhealthy competition or sabotage
  7. Unwillingness to collaborate or work together
  8. Unacceptable behavior (e.g., harassment, discrimination)
  9. Unwillingness to adapt to change or new ideas
  10. Unprofessional communication or behavior (e.g., gossiping, complaining)

Remember that everyone has their own unique deal breakers, and what may be a deal breaker for one person may not be for another. It's essential to communicate your non-negotiables with your partner, friend, or colleague to ensure a healthy and fulfilling relationship.