Conversation starters for new friends

Here are some conversation starters that can help you build a connection with new friends:

Light and casual

  1. How was your week/weekend?
  2. What's your favorite hobby and why do you enjoy it?
  3. Have you traveled anywhere exciting recently?
  4. What's your go-to spontaneous date night idea?
  5. What's the best book/movie/TV show you've consumed lately?

Interests and passions

  1. What do you like to do in your free time?
  2. Are you a fan of any particular sports teams or music genres?
  3. What's your favorite type of cuisine and why?
  4. Have you ever learned a new skill or taken a class for fun?
  5. What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?

Work and studies

  1. What do you do for work/study?
  2. What's the most challenging part of your job/studies?
  3. What's the best part of your job/studies?
  4. Have you ever had a particularly interesting or unusual project?
  5. What are your goals for your career/education?

Fun and games

  1. If you could switch lives with someone for a day, who would it be and why?
  2. What's the best joke you know?
  3. Have you ever played a sport or game competitively?
  4. What's your favorite type of music and why?
  5. If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?

Deeper conversations

  1. What's the most important lesson you've learned in life so far?
  2. What's something that's on your bucket list and why?
  3. What's the best advice you've ever received?
  4. What's something that you're proud of accomplishing?
  5. What's something that you're looking forward to in the coming months?

Remember, the goal is to start a conversation, not to interview or interrogate your new friend. Choose a starter that feels natural and authentic, and be sure to listen actively and respond thoughtfully. Good luck!