Conversation starters for new friends
Here are some conversation starters that can help you build a connection with new friends:
Light and casual
- How was your week/weekend?
- What's your favorite hobby and why do you enjoy it?
- Have you traveled anywhere exciting recently?
- What's your go-to spontaneous date night idea?
- What's the best book/movie/TV show you've consumed lately?
Interests and passions
- What do you like to do in your free time?
- Are you a fan of any particular sports teams or music genres?
- What's your favorite type of cuisine and why?
- Have you ever learned a new skill or taken a class for fun?
- What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
Work and studies
- What do you do for work/study?
- What's the most challenging part of your job/studies?
- What's the best part of your job/studies?
- Have you ever had a particularly interesting or unusual project?
- What are your goals for your career/education?
Fun and games
- If you could switch lives with someone for a day, who would it be and why?
- What's the best joke you know?
- Have you ever played a sport or game competitively?
- What's your favorite type of music and why?
- If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
Deeper conversations
- What's the most important lesson you've learned in life so far?
- What's something that's on your bucket list and why?
- What's the best advice you've ever received?
- What's something that you're proud of accomplishing?
- What's something that you're looking forward to in the coming months?
Remember, the goal is to start a conversation, not to interview or interrogate your new friend. Choose a starter that feels natural and authentic, and be sure to listen actively and respond thoughtfully. Good luck!