Adding a new friend to us is not cool
It can be challenging to adjust to a new friend joining a close-knit group, especially if you feel like it's changing the dynamics of your relationships. Here are some thoughts to consider:
- It's okay to feel uncertain: It's normal to feel a little uneasy or unsure about how things will change with a new friend joining the group. Give yourself time to adjust and get to know the new person.
- New friends can bring new experiences: A new friend can bring fresh perspectives, new interests, and exciting experiences to the group. This can be a great opportunity for growth and exploration.
- It's not about replacing existing friendships: Just because a new friend joins the group, it doesn't mean that your existing friendships will be replaced or diminished. You can still maintain your close relationships with your original friends.
- Communicate with your friends: If you're feeling anxious or uncertain about the new friend, talk to your existing friends about how you're feeling. They may be feeling the same way, and you can work through your concerns together.
- Give the new friend a chance: Try to get to know the new friend and give them a chance to fit in. You might be surprised by how much you have in common or how much you enjoy their company.
Remember, it's okay to take time to adjust to changes in your social circle. But with an open mind and a willingness to adapt, you can find ways to make the new friend feel welcome and valued, while still maintaining your existing relationships.